Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband and I were together for 2 years before we got married. When I look at it now it seems odd that we ever made it that far. We were definetly complete opposites. Of course...at that time I was so in love and "blinded" by that love. I couldn't see what the world around me saw. (a hopeless relationship) In a lot of ways, I was blessed I guess in my short lived marriage. My husband never cheated on me, and told me he loved me all the time. It was more of the things he didn't do that ended our marriage.
My dad had tripple bypass surgery early last year. We actually rushed him to the hospital the day we got married. I started noticing even then how much my husband...the man I'd just married...wasn't there for me. Dad was in the hospital for 12 days. My husband was no where to be seen.
Things continued on in our marriage....mostly with me ignoring all of the signs that things were not right between us. Then the unthinkable happened. My little brother committed suicide. I think going through that was the last straw. It truly made me realize that when I needed my husband the most...he just wasn't there. Just 3 months later, my husband walked out.
I'm at the point now where I've come to terms with it. I'm not happy the way things turned out, but I truly believe his leaving is for the best...I just want to move on with my life! I'm tired of the hurt and the pain.
My dad had tripple bypass surgery early last year. We actually rushed him to the hospital the day we got married. I started noticing even then how much my husband...the man I'd just married...wasn't there for me. Dad was in the hospital for 12 days. My husband was no where to be seen.
Things continued on in our marriage....mostly with me ignoring all of the signs that things were not right between us. Then the unthinkable happened. My little brother committed suicide. I think going through that was the last straw. It truly made me realize that when I needed my husband the most...he just wasn't there. Just 3 months later, my husband walked out.
I'm at the point now where I've come to terms with it. I'm not happy the way things turned out, but I truly believe his leaving is for the best...I just want to move on with my life! I'm tired of the hurt and the pain.
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
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My husband left 7 months ago as he couldn't put up with me having Multiple Sclerosis and my expecting him to be supportive. At first I was devastated but I have gotten stronger as the time goes by and actually have a better life now without him. Even in the times when I've been sick I've found it better to be without him as it means I can concentrate on myself and not be doubly upset with him not giving me his support which I felt I deserved.
I know it's a cliche but time really does make all the difference. Keep a journal so you can look back in a few weeks and see how far you've come and this will help give you strength as well.
All the best and I know there is something better out there for both you and I.