SO what do you do when the one person that you deeply care for tells you that he has feelings for someone else that he dated well over 26 years ago and does not know what will happen. Well me at first I crumbled into pieces then this morning I decided that this woman was not going to be the one that takes him from me. I have patiently stood by while he worked thru his feelings in regards to us and take it slow. He was developing feelings for me and then he goes home to help family with some things and meets up with this woman and they all of the sudden still feel for one another. Well damn it I am not the only one that is getting hurt in this there are three children that are going to be devastated. I guess I really was in denial about caring for him as deeply as I did, I did not realize that my love for him had grown to where it is until those words came from his mouth. Waat to do, do I fight for us or do I bow out and just say the heck with it? Please please help. Is it not meant for me to love or be loved? I think I would rather be beat by my ex then feel this pain. How does one fight for someone that loves someone else? Please I just want him to get thru this and realize that I am his true one, that he just needs closure from 26 years ago. So what does one do when you want to let go but do not at the same time. I have started talking to someone on here via the phone and he is such a wonderful person, such kind, caring words come from him and yet I still feel that I should wait and see what this all brings, I guess for now I just need to let things go and take the direction that they are meant to take, I thought I was doing well but now I am finding myself starting to feel bad again, Sam has told me that he and this person are supposed to talk Friday which duh is tonight and see where things lie but does that mean I am the back up if they decide not to pursue anything? Or does that mean he needed this to have the closure from an old relationship that he was never able to have so that he can give me 100% of himself. I am so confused I just do not know what to do.
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