Look at Bush. He screws us, takes away what is ours, and calls himself president.

It takes all kinds.

Darrin, I am so sorry that she did this to you.. I can feel that you have been shaken to the core of your being.. Many injustices have been done since time began in the name of Religion.. Some of them have been done to me, but I have decided to keep the faith that I have in my self and humanity on a case by case basis.. She was not a good person and she used you.. Religion, unfortunately has nothing to do with it.. I had to accept that my ideas of faith and spirituality are unique to me and I have long since stopped trying to understand how others take care of their spiritual needs.. She would be this type of person whether she was or was not saying that she is a Christian.. I am sorry that she took advantage of your kind heart.. Keep trying to work through it, but unless you are like her, you won't understand, and in time you will just accept that yes , she is not a very nice person and I am... Learn from it and keep working toward healing.... My prayers are with you of peace and comfort... Kimmee

it's called denial.They live in lala land just so they can carry on their merry way while causing mass destruction!!! I could hook her up with my stbx...she would be crawling back to you begging for forgiveness and kissing your feet....just a thought

noob thats not necessary..
1. they breathe - they lie
2. they breathe - they blame

Hey all of us Christian are on different levels with our walk with Christ. Remember all have sinned and fall short of God's glory. Please see that person for what they are and pray that they someday be the person God's call them to be.

I call it selfishness. Its not fair but unfortunately there are people out there who are very selfish. You will make it, I truly believe it. Take care.

when I figure that one out I will let you know but it seems to be what they do

I have a word for people like the one you describe "Narcisstic" It's everyone else but them.

Hi darrin,

Trying to figure this out will just drive you crazy. Some people can never see the pain they cause and are incapable of telling the truth. They use blame to justify bad behavior because they have a deep dark place in their soul. As far as this person calling him/herself a Christian, well just realize they will be judged one day. Try to move on.

I question that same thing every day..

well darrin.....i affectionately refer to it as self justification. i don't know your story...but they all intertwine with the same verbs and adjectives. all i know is, sometimes you have to stand alone for a moment and realize that the only thing you can rely on is your own strength, heart and in the dust around you that forms the concrete of your beliefs. :)

DArrin quit talking in one sentence threads..We have to try to keep up with what's going on with you. Do one thread and tell us what's going on and update us and give a little past info with each thread. You're driving me nuts...lol

Denial is right or justification for what they are doing, Dont worry about them we can't help them now they will selfdestruct soon enough. It's time to worry about you now!!!!!!!!!!