
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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My husband last week informed me via email we were divorcing. When I called his parents home I was advised he is not to speak to me. You know, is it just me or was this a really hurtful and unfair way to end a marriage?
Perhaps he's doing me a favor, now I know I can move on, but why could he have not told me if even on the telephone. He said "maybe your councellor will help you to forgive me." Bad news for him though, I'm a Christian and I fight with love, so I do not hold a grudge. I just wish he would have said goodbye to me in a nicer way.
Anyone else have to go through this? Will he someday give me the closure that I need? I mean im still bent over picking up all the shattered pieces of a broken heart.
Perhaps he's doing me a favor, now I know I can move on, but why could he have not told me if even on the telephone. He said "maybe your councellor will help you to forgive me." Bad news for him though, I'm a Christian and I fight with love, so I do not hold a grudge. I just wish he would have said goodbye to me in a nicer way.
Anyone else have to go through this? Will he someday give me the closure that I need? I mean im still bent over picking up all the shattered pieces of a broken heart.
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I hope you receive the closure that you desire soon.
But maybe closure is what we get when we are over them, hope so anyway....
Today..and for the past several months my sister and I have been in very close contact. She feels, and I agree, that in situations of a contentious divorce or break up there probably is no real closure. Friends of mine of similar age who are widows or widowers tell me they feel their situations were better than mine.
I had to dig way back to find my closure...two weeks after my nervous breakdown..my ex was out cheating again..that said it all!
And now I don't care. My heart was broken and now it's healing slowly but surely and I don't need his closure to become a better single me :)
closure comes when the questions stop
And yes, he is a huge coward for telling you by email.