Ok the kids and I had a long talk last night about the divorce..My 13yr old saw the email he sent to me saying he retained an attny and is moving forward..Called his dad a jerk.. anyways...My 16yr in the eyes of the law, does not have to go with his father if he dont want too, but the other two, 11yr, and 13yr told me they are afraid of him because he yells so much. They dont want to go with him, but do because he gets mad. So what exactly do I do? Not to mention his mother is crazy, seriously, is on meds, his dad is an alchoholic and so is his brother..They dont want to see their grandma, and have no desire to see their uncle.. The divorce for some reason has not effected them whatsoever.. They dont care dad is not here anymore. But what do I do if they beg me not to go with him? They are not little kids, and should have a choice..
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