I am generally new to this group, spend most of my time in the physical and emotional abuse groups. But I really need some support. This is going to be the most difficult Christmas ever, and I have a four year old son who is going through it too. My husband has, in a nut shell, taken so much away from us. The money, the checking acct, credit cards, kept my mail for 3 weeks...I have had to sell all my jewelry to buy food, gas, and Christmas gifts for my family and my son....he occasionally flips me a 20 or a 50 and expects that to be enough for whatever we need...Jesus, $50 just fills my gas tank, and what groceries can you buy for fifty bucks? He is so delusional, so I have filed a motion to have him removed from our house and go to court on Thurs. I am Scared. But whats worse, being scared of HIM when he is home, or being scared of him if he isnt? I have some sense of guilt because of my son, he loves his dad. But the things he has displayed in front of him are unacceptable, and My son is displaying some of husbands warped phrases and behaviors....this is why I try NOT to feel guilty, because I know it is best to get away from him...Its just that husband has told son he has bought "a whole truck full" of presents for him, but do you think ANY of them are under OUR tree? NO, so I dont know what he is planning. I am just sick of this, sick of living life according to him. I am mad. Ready to just fight for what is right, for me and my son.
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