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I journaled about this, but I guess I want some feed back.
My stbx is 4 weeks late in spousal support. Yep, not one payment made and just now he sends me this. Mind you this is the first direct communication we've had in four months.
"I have tried to make payments at S courthouse, M courthouse, and your attorneys office. Your attorney never setup your name in the system to accept payments. I have called and left several messages for your attorney, and I have stopped by his office numerous times. He has not returned my calls, nor has anyone been at his office."
My response was:
"My attorney did not us up in the system for payments. Generally the attorney representing the person making the payments sets that up. Since that was not done, my attorney is filing the necessary paperwork. So it should be all set now.
I received the car registration renewal in the mail. Your car is still listed as being registered to me. I sent you the title late last year.
Did you get it? I can apply for a replacement title if necessary."
No response after that. Maybe I'll actually get some money this week. Though I am not holding my breath!
My stbx is 4 weeks late in spousal support. Yep, not one payment made and just now he sends me this. Mind you this is the first direct communication we've had in four months.
"I have tried to make payments at S courthouse, M courthouse, and your attorneys office. Your attorney never setup your name in the system to accept payments. I have called and left several messages for your attorney, and I have stopped by his office numerous times. He has not returned my calls, nor has anyone been at his office."
My response was:
"My attorney did not us up in the system for payments. Generally the attorney representing the person making the payments sets that up. Since that was not done, my attorney is filing the necessary paperwork. So it should be all set now.
I received the car registration renewal in the mail. Your car is still listed as being registered to me. I sent you the title late last year.
Did you get it? I can apply for a replacement title if necessary."
No response after that. Maybe I'll actually get some money this week. Though I am not holding my breath!
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Uh, the one that we went to court in? idiot.
We have court again on the 8th. I'm hoping that it will all be over then.
It's just an excuse for him to wait another couple of days to make a payment.
Wanna bet it's not for the full amount?
It's good that he couldn't see me flipping off the screen or screaming "asshole" at the top of my lungs.
;)