Well tonight i found out my husband has been cheating on me. i decided to message a person who worked with him while he was away...she wrote me back to call her asap...i did...she explained that he was bragging about being married and seeing someone else. Talking to her alot while he was gone...and told her the next time they worked together that we were getting a divorce and that he moved in with that girl. I confronted him on the phone about it and he lied of course. all the stuff he told me doesnt make sense anyways so why should i believe that he's not. The girl i spoke with told me that she would do whatever she could to help me out. Can what he told her be used at evidence of adultery? I saw a picture of the woman he is having the affair with and she is not pretty at all. I have never felt so pathetic in my life. After i found out and told him about it i felt this sudden urge of happiness, maybe because i finally had some proof i guess...but now that i'm off the high im starting to get really depressed. I went through some of his stuff and boxed it up and put it in the garage...i told him he had to get everything out in a week...and that i didn't care how he did it. He has a sailboat in the backyard too...i wonder how he's going to get that moved. I hate him for what he did to me...but i do still love him and it makes me sick....anyone got any advice on what to do next as far as lawyers...im going in the morning..im skipping class to do it. thanks
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