when my husband and I are having problems or I see deviled eggs lol. I know you are all wondering why deviled eggs right? Kind of a long story but I will try to make it short. Back when I was 19 I hung out at 2 bars in the same building mostly the one downstairs because my mom's friend owned that one and I was underage. Anyways her friends brother ran the bar upstairs. Well one day he was having a birthday party for himself upstairs and came downstairs with a plate of deviled eggs and offered my friend and I some and invited us upstairs. So we went up there, he knew I was underage but let me drink anyways. After the bar closed he invited us up to his apartment which was above the bars for an after party. Well one thing led to another and I woke up in his bed the next morning lol. Anyways I never really expected much to come out of this one night stand but that wasn't the case. a couple days later he called me and we would talk on the phone for hours or he would call me when he closed the bar and I would come over. It was wonderful, he helped me through some rough times and was so caring towards me. We were never like official boyfriend/girlfriend it was more of a secret romance I guess. He did tell me he loved me and I loved him but we knew because of who we were we could never be anything more. And there was a ten year age difference. He just turned 30 and I was almost 20. We had our thing for about 1 1/2 years but I think it was one of the best times of my life. i eventually met my husband at that bar and he eventually married someone else. I last saw him a few years ago at his dads funeral. But anyways back to my point, whenever my husband and I have gotten in fights throughout the years I would go to bed and have a dream about this other man and then wake up the next day thinking about him the whole day. Why is that? I am now 37 and he is 47 but I always still had a place for him in my heart. As a matter of fact he is actually best friends with my brother in law. Today even though my husband didn't show up at his family get together I did stop in for a little while and I asked his brother for the OM's phone number. He gave it to me, now I'm not sure if I should call or not. It would be just to say hello and see how he is doing. Any opinions?
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