It's now two weeks since my husband left and four since he told me he wanted a divorce. I've been living with my son and his wife for three weeks now and they brought 5 cats with them. I was told they were going to find homes for two of the kittens. They haven't even tried! The cats are running all over the house and climbing all over my table and other furniture. They are using my only chair in the living room for a scratching post and run all over like they are in the Indy 500! I want so much to move out into my own apt and have to stay here till I save up the money to make the move. I guess I could take it out of my investments, but then I wouldn't have that money if I needed it later for something. I may have to get into it to pay for a divorce lawyer. I never used to hate cats, but I surely do now. I will never again in my life have a cat in my home!!! I do have a cat of my own, but he never acted like this. He never tried getting onto my dining room table. He's mostly an outdoor cat. I'll take him with me and I'll have to turn him into an indoor cat. That shouldn't be to hard as he is old and getting feeble. I just feel like I have no control in my life right now. When my husband was here, he made all the decisions. Now that he's gone, I still can't. I try to make rules in my home, but they are disregarded. I get no respect from my son and his wife. They want all kind of things from me, but will do nothing to help me out. They have asked me to stay here till the end of the year. They want to try and keep the house for themselves. I wish them luck. It's in a bad state of disrepear because STBX never did any work on it in the nearly eleven years we've had the house. I know I need to just start packing up so I'm ready to move. I just have to tell myself it's for the best and do it! But, I find all I want to do is to sit and do nothing. I need to find a way to motivate myself and take control! I don't know what to do!
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