Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I was so happy to come home and find that my husband left, AT LAST. Well I found out where he went. He was in jail. In jail for DUI.
I don't have a job YET, because I just moved back here from Boston.
We don't have the money for this crap. I had to ask my sister in law for the money and she wants it back tomorrow, rent is due in 2 days and there is no food in this house.
He is going to loss his job, and his CDL, plus all the money he will have to pay for a lawyer, court, probation and AAA classes.
I can't believe I gave my eveything in Boston for this crap.
He brings me down EVERY TIME.
I can feel a brakedown coming on, I really can.
I don't have a job YET, because I just moved back here from Boston.
We don't have the money for this crap. I had to ask my sister in law for the money and she wants it back tomorrow, rent is due in 2 days and there is no food in this house.
He is going to loss his job, and his CDL, plus all the money he will have to pay for a lawyer, court, probation and AAA classes.
I can't believe I gave my eveything in Boston for this crap.
He brings me down EVERY TIME.
I can feel a brakedown coming on, I really can.
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
Every time I leave he dose something to put me back. Some how he always pulls the rug out from under my feet.
The last time I left I went to Boston with my 2 girls. My son (17) didn't want to leave his school, so he stayed with dad in Florida. I was gone for a month and a half. I was in a shelter and going to school for my GED and trainning for a new job. My son started calling and telling me my husband was drinking, fighting with him and not buying any food. I tried talking to my son and husband and told them I was doing so well here, if they could please try to work it out. once my husband know I wasn't coming back and he lost me for good this time. He started fight more with my son. He would kick him out and then call the cops on him. I had no choise but to drop " my life long dreams and plans, AGAIN"to run back and save the day.
My husband told me he would move out and give me the apartment, he never left. I have been back for about 2 weeks and he still said he had no where to go.
Last night I went to a cook out at my families house. I told him he could not come, because he will drink to much and start fights with any one that looks at him wrong.
I can home and he was gone. I was happy. I thought he finaly gave up and moved on.
NOPE! He was in jail.
The thing is him and I was saving money for rent. I don't know how he got so backed up on rent in one month, but he did.
When I was gone the lights got shut off, so all the food in the frig went bad. He never got more food. When I got back there was nothing. I had some money left over when I got back here and got more, but he sits there and eats one loaf of bread with each meal.
He will lose his job because he has no CDL and more, he can't drive.
To make a long story short, I'll be stuck with him again because he will need help, AGAIN.
I know it's easy for me to say, I'm not is your shoes. I realize that. But your a family in crisis now and you and the kids have to come first. Let his hinney sit in jail, dont't save the day.
Save yourself and your children. I just can't say it enough.
I will get through this. It's just every time I get knock down by life, its gets hard to to get up.
Thank you all for being here for me. It realy dose help.