I and my BF broke up after 2 years of dating because he said he couldnt commit to me. He moved out and got his own place a few months ago and said that he just wanted to do things on his own because he has always needed a woman in his life. Every single woman hes ever been involved with either used him or took everything he had and broke up with him. Im the first real girl friend hes ever had. His family loves me and was surprised when he informed them that we were no longer together. He wanted us remain friends which I thought was going to be really hard to do. But I thought if we remained friends then maybe we would eventually get back together. However, I just found out that hes in another relationship after one month of us breaking up and out of no where he went and got married. Hes now asking me for his help because apparently he lied to his wife telling her that him and I had broke up a year ago. She found cards from me while we were together and checks that he made out to me while we were together; earliest a few months ago. Now shes questioning him on the truth of when he broke up with me because she now thinks hes still involved with me. Its even worst because he has mentioned my name to her on several occasions prior to all of this happening. Now she wants to know the truth. She has my e-mail address and my home address. He is begging me to not respond to any of her efforts of trying to contacting me in order to find out the truth. I spoke to his sister and she is not supportive at all with what he did and his parent doesnt know that he has gotten married. Im torn with if I should or shouldnt respond to this womans inquiries if she was to ever contact me. Im still much in love with him and he knows it. He says he knows hes made a big mistake and his going through hell right now. But I just dont know if he feels he made a mistake by marrying her why is he trying to protect her from knowing the truth. Why he just doesnt get out of it, unless he truly wants to be with her and his telling me something different
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