My husband walked out one year ago on our anniversary 3/31/08. We went back an forth until abought August when he said he needs more time apart to deal with the years of neglect. I had an eating disorder and very low self asteem and i treated him like crap for about 3 years of our 7 year marriage. I move out in September so i could work on ME and hoping we would get back together. Well i have gotten the help i need and i really want to work this out. During the last 6 months we have been intimate and i really felt we had our sexual connection back. I have been telling him i want US back and he just says he can be friends and needs more time because he does not trust me to go back to the person i was. Monday 3/24/08 i was over at our house and really told him how i feel. He says he does not have the fight left him him and he has given me so many chances he just cant anymore. He thinks divorce is the only thing to do. I dont wnat to let go! i dont know how to let go! please help me!!
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