
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
(BTW I am 31 and I have a HUGE grey patch on my right side. Been growing for about a year and spreading!!!!)
I've decided to just live my life and be as happy as I possibly can and if someone comes along to add something to MY life then so be it. :0) Take Care
For the record-underneath all these layers of color, I am 80% white. It is a genetic thing, my brother is a year younger-much darker skinned and Very gray/white.
Menopause??? Surgical in 1999, still have the ovaries, they did kick back in after almsot a year. However, those wonderful hot flashes still hit.
I think that I was about 35 when I went to bifocals.
Wow...maybe I AM old :-O
I in fact enjoy being alone now, because to experience in a marriage heartache where there should have been joy, anomosity where their should have been frinedship, deceipt where there should have been trust, celibacy where there should have been intimacy, was too much to bear year after year. When you are alone, there is at least the hope to achieve these things. When you are alone in a failed marriage, you are trapped with no hope in sight.
Pursuing your interests while single, or developing new ones, will help you to achieve some hapiness and inner peace. This in turn will lead to self confidence - and people, namely guys, will notice.
For me, I'm 48 and starting over. I had the same feelings, horrible feelings, of dying alone in some decrepid apt, being found a week or so later by the stranger next door. But now I'm in the best shape of my life - I've joined a community symphonic band, take yoga (I never would have 20 yrs ago) and I'm meeting new people. Who knows, I hear of 90 yr old men fighting off the ladies in nursing homes - perhaps that will be me.
See you there? We'll go for a walk with our walkers!
Hang in there, there is hope.
turning 40 next year only been with one man stbx turned out to be a big liar.
Thinking once divorce is final i might try all the flavors!!! LOL
But love will be tough, love is hard