I don't know what to do. My wife is not a bad women but she is not a good women. She doesn't want to do the things a normal mother wants to do, ie take care of her children. It's always a struggle to get her to do anything. She is a stay at home mom, mainly because she refuses to get a job. She says she can't handle working with other people cause of the stress. I am to the point with the mess my children and I live in and the non-contact with anyone outside our direct family to just leave. I fear for my children though. I don't think my wife can raise the children should I decide to take this step and I know the courts seem to always favor the women. I don't want to take my children completely away from their mother. Never in my life would I do that to them but she can not even take care of herself, I would hate to see what would happen if I wasn't around for the kids everyday. I don't want to divorce my wife but I am so tired of feeling sad and mad all in the same. My children deserve better. Thank you for any advice.
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