My husband just left me after 12yrs of an abusive marriage.He constantly accused me of having an affair especially if I refuse to his daily sexual advances. I found out that he has another woman.he just purchase a new truck, and he is on vacation while he is refusing to pay the mortgage and the child care. I filed for divorce as a Pro-Se because I can't afford for a lawyer. He is a police officerand he has many influences. I am a little afraid especially because I don't have any friends and I have problems with the language, so I don't know if I going to represent myself properly. On the other hand, I'm ashame of myself because I still love him. I am refusing to take his phone calls because I don't want to let him keep hurting me. I feel like a looser.
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