I have been married for 15 years, and even though we have had some tough times, we have always been able to work through them. Just 2 weeks ago, my husband and I sat down and really hashed some stuff out. We both decided that we were going to stop any type of distructive behavior, and make our marriage a priority. One of the things that was going to be worked on is that he was going to set boundries with his female employees, because you see, I had been put on the back burner for the past two years, and all he did was rub this young women in my face..."oh you should have seen her when she did this, it was so cute"...."she is so this and so that". Well needless to say, I started feeling very insecure. It has been a struggle for the past two years. Well, like I said, one of the things that the pastor at our church said at a Sunday service one day was to put a fence around your marriage, which he said he does by not being alone in his office with women ect. So I brought this to his attention. Because he would drive to another town with this women for work ect....I told him that he didn't put a fence around our marriage like the pastor said, and he said he would.

Well today, I was working at a rental house we own next door to his office, and he got out of another employees car (another female), and I reminded him about boundries. You see, I would never be allowed to go around like he does with another man.

So tonight he told me that he couldn't stand me, and that he could find somebody better then me, and that he has too much going for him to be with someone like me...you know all the good stuff that you say to someone that you want to be secure in the relationship.

I don't know what to do...I feel like a total loser. I don't even know how to act towards him. I know he is going to expect me to be nice to him, but how do I do that? My heart is broken. I don't have a job, and I am taking care of a daughter that is in recovery from an eating disorder. I really don't know where to turn.