Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Last Week my husband of 6 years and I decided to seperate( my decision). It's been a long time coming. At first it was hard to admit that' what I really truly wanted b/c I ALWAYS put his feelings first and this is the first time I have put mine 1st. After I said it adn stuck to it I felt so strong and like a HUGE weight had been lifted off my shoulders.
But then on the night that I can't sleep (which is often) I feel so weak. I know in my heart this is the right decision, so why during the day do I feel so weak and at night when the house is quiet do I feel so sad and weak?
Does anybody else feel this way?
But then on the night that I can't sleep (which is often) I feel so weak. I know in my heart this is the right decision, so why during the day do I feel so weak and at night when the house is quiet do I feel so sad and weak?
Does anybody else feel this way?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
stayed 2 years after deciding i was unhappy but I was afraid of how he'd feel or take it and didn't want to make him sad.
Finally, I just told him I was leaving and did it. Packed my stuff and moved away.
I still have nights where I wonder if I did the right thing, since apparently everyone I know back home is disappointed with me and thinks I was wrong.
I have guilt issues! I'm much happier since I left. I'm eating again and doing stuff for ME to make me happy, and not trying to do stuff to make him happy, even if it's not what I wanted to do.
so many years wasted doing that.