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I do NOT miss

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For balance, I felt that we should talk about what we don't miss.

I don't miss worrying that he's bounced another check,
Wondering where he is
Having him freeze me out because he didn't get his way
His crazy ass family
The chaos..
Being humiliated
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His anger
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I don't miss being having to always apologize even if it isn't my fault.
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Having a conversation and having to weigh whether what you are hearing on the other side is truthful. That is tiring when you can no longer just talk and feel comfortable that the words are on an honest level. Do not miss second guessing.
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Her unpredictable moods
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Cleaning up after him.
Being disappointed by him.
Feeling unloved by him.
Being lied to.

...and loosing the covers in the middle of the night. ;)
patti22
patti22
I won't miss:
wondering if he'll be drunk when he comes home
wondering if he'll get into an accident (he never did)
having to pack to travel 4 hrs to his family's camp
having to clean the camp
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I dont miss him telling me I need to quit obsessing over things.
deleted_user
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Watching espn 24 hours a day when he was home and having to endure watching basketball for weeks on end.

That's about all I can think of rightnow. Ask me again in a few months.
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((( the cooking )))

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deleted_user
deleted_user
Constantly on me about wanting me to change things about myself.
deleted_user
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getting hit. Sorry...but it's true...I tried to think of a light hearted answer, but couldn't.
deleted_user
deleted_user
How much space have I got???? I don't miss his lies or his drinking. I don't miss walking on egg shells, the cold shoulder, being groped, or being told I'm all the things he really is (negative, rigid, judgmental, unforgiving). I also don't miss his lack of communication or his irresponsibility with money. Oh, and I REALLY don't miss his twisting everything I said around into something negative and totally opposite of what I had actually said & treating me according to his misinterpretation.
Finally I don't miss his never having to say he was sorry.
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His Lying
His Cheating
His Taking and Never Giving
His Stinginess
His Slovenliness
His Criticism and no praise
His Strange Family
His never accepting responsibility, only assessing blame on others.
His not being able to admit or accept the fact that he is a homosexual!
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The DANM PAGER!!!!!!!!!!! Beep, beep, beep!!!!!!
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LYING, cheating, non communication, no involvement, being told "it will be okay" for everything, existing.
But, he is still doing all those things.
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