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I could use a HUG

deleted_user
deleted_user
So today my wonderful STBX comes by my work knowing what time I go on break, he gives me the phony BS about a recall for my Jeep. It did say there could be a recall but it also said about an extened warranty. He was very nice gave it to me and said you have to fill this part out and the call...Like i'm an Idiot... Only thing I've been an idiot about is taking him back twice. Ok so my point is that it's getting close to our divorce time and this is what he does, he comes on strong and makes me feel bad... I still do love him but I know he will never change. He is addicted to smoking pot and being on AOL in chat rooms and that is unaceptable to me... So I hope I have the strength this time if he does come on strong that I can reject his charm...so keep them hugs coming and tell me I am doing the right thing.. I was fine until I saw him today... thanks guys love ya all.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Big hugs to you. I having contact with them is so hard. Stay strong. Take care of you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
you,re doing the right thing. ((big hug))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Stay away from him! Keep strong!!!!!!!!!!!!

And big ((((HUGS))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
You are doing the right thing, stay strong....big big hugs to you!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
You will be strong!!!!

*handing you an axe to chop the silver tongue*
MsBlank1
MsBlank1
((((((((((NJ)))))))))))))) You are doing the right thing....damn our hearts,they are always telling us otherwise!!!!!!
awakendwoman
awakendwoman
((((((((((((((((((hugssssssssssssssss))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
(((((Huge Hugs))))))

tomorrow's another day
queendy
queendy
You know best what to do, so keep doing it!
Hugsssss...
hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560
Hugs, NJ! The fact that you recognize that seeing him makes you feel bad is a step in the right direction. You can take steps to limit your contact--do things by phone, text, email, etc.

Just remember, you have given him loads of chances to change and he hasn't. Keep telling yourself you deserve better because you do.

Hugs, hugs, and more hugs.
deleted_user
deleted_user
BIG HUGS!!!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
my xass was always nice..thats why i had to cut off contact..not because he was mean..but the niceness = false hope.

if you want the divorce - stay strong..we'll remind you
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hugs to you NJ. Your time is coming. Hang in there and keep the faith. I'm here for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thank You everyone this is the best thing I can do for myself is to come here. You are all so wonderful with helping. It sure puts things in perspective when someone non bias will give you information. You all speak from your heart or you have had the same expierences... I wish I could just hug each and everyone of you.. thanks for keeping me on point
deleted_user
deleted_user
Big HUGS!!!!!
You will make it!
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