My b/f and Ihave been apart for 7 months now. We have a 18 month old daughter together who i have custody of. He has custody of his 8 yr old who has serious issues, and he has another daughter 15 who lives with her mom he never married. So yes he has 3 daughters from 3 diff woman. Anyway. I was in love with him and still am. He threw me and our 18 month old out 2 times from his home when she was just 10 months. Over time we have seen each other as a family but then he always says its not going to work. He told me to move on he has no feelings for me and he doesn't love me. He misses his daughter but not me. He said he would find someone else ect ect. I told him I was dating someone and his response was " If I cared about you that would have hurt me but it didnt" Also he hardly sees his daughter, partly because he said he does not have time, he is always working. I found out that he has had free time and has not bothered to call for her. I stopped visitation temporarily. He has somewhat of a track record with not really putting his children first. But he blames this all on me because he said i cannot let go and be civil. He does not care that he hurt us and deserted us. Why do I still love this man and why am I obsessing with him finding someone else. I did everything i could for him including taking care of his 8 yr old while he did nothing but work. He said it was not good enough. He said I was always stressed out. I am so confused heartbroken and I cant stop obsessing over him. It seems like I meant nothing to him I really didn't. Also his family, his mom and my daughters godfather have not ack my our daughter in 8 months. So I will not allow him to take her to visit them and he cannot understnd why. Is it me, What is wrong with me
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