Ok. We split up in March. I didnt file the papers till last week. He still has not recieved his yet. Just found out today hes been seeing someone. We are married! What is wrong with people these days? He always accused me of messing around when Ive been at home with kids. I dont know what to do. He called this morning fussing about me letting the oldest buy a truck with his own money. I was quiet and let him preach and then after that he text me to tell me he still didnt get his papers. There has been a phone number all over the phone bill and my best friends called it to see who it was. It was her. I told him they were on the way and that he was free to keep seeing her. He told me he can have friends. Do you stay on the phone with your friends day and night and at 2 in the morning? Did he ever love me? Then I told him thank you for making me the bigger person here. At least I kept my vows. He accused me of not and told me he left me because I was controlling and he was happy now and is never coming back. I may have been controlling. He got drunk almost everyday and raged on us. I had to fuss. I had to protect the kids. Where does he get off treating me like this? When will he get his?
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