I have been asking several advice lately on here and I thank everyones for their input. I am really at my wits end. My wife says I haven't done anything in regards to paying her the attention she needs. Things happen to me where I know most guys fall into this trap. There comes a time where you are being told that you need to wake up and show me love and most can step up then again most don't take it well. In this cases I didn't handle it well. I have been in counseling for these issues. But I am still reminded that I have not done anything. Then when presented with a altamadum I do something and then told you only do that because now you feel you have to and then made to feel once again I didn't do enough or I didn't do it naturally and so on and so on. If seen my ways and I know how I can improve but am made to feel that it needs to be done instantly. Its been years of deprogramming that just isn't going to happen over night. I am trying to convience her to go into counseling with me, but she just doesn't see it is going to do any good. I had asked her to ask herself what's the worse that can happen and what's the best that can happen. I want to save this marriage for all the right reason but she seems to think I am full of it. What do I do??????
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