I finally filed for child support after waiting a month hoping we would get back together. I don't really know how I feel about it though. I know it was the right thing to do because he needs to support his kids. When I asked him about giving me money he said he supported them for 6 years and now I need to just go out and get a job. The thing that burns me up the most is he is supporting his girlfriend and her two kids. Since they moved in with him. He is paying the rent and electric, probably buying the food and other household items they might need. How dare him tell me to get a job when she doesn't have a job. I go to college full-time and then I do my best to be a mother to our kids. I feel happy in a way because I need the money and the kids deserve his money and its a step forward but at the same time I am also sad because it is a step forward, a step in the forward direction that I did not want to take. By filing for child support I am admitting to myself that our marriage is probably over.
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