
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I am really trying to hang in for the next few weeks until my child custody and support hearings are over, but I keep feeling like I am going to throw up. I am so stressed I tremour all the time I am already in therepy and it helps.
The ex is talking about marrying this new woman and moving into a house etc. etc. just to torture me. He is a liar and a cheater and a master con man.
It was just to late for me when I finally told him to go. He left me with mountains of debt and now he is torturing me. In little ways and then he and the girlfriend are saying I am doing it to them. I feel so sick about all this.
HELP!! and pray if you do.
nurse
The ex is talking about marrying this new woman and moving into a house etc. etc. just to torture me. He is a liar and a cheater and a master con man.
It was just to late for me when I finally told him to go. He left me with mountains of debt and now he is torturing me. In little ways and then he and the girlfriend are saying I am doing it to them. I feel so sick about all this.
HELP!! and pray if you do.
nurse
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First of all no one should have you like this. There is no man or woman walking on the face of this earth you should be giving this kind of power to. You're not eating, probably losing your hair, pacing the floor, simply a wreck while they plan their nice new life together. I don't know you but I still don't understand how you seem to lay down so easy. This time in your life will bring things out of you you had no idea existed. Most of all it should bring the fight out of you. You have to eat because you are in the midst of the fight of your life right now. A fighter doesn't go into the ring on an empty stomach; why are you?
I was left with debt to. When I got married 7 years ago I had perfect credit and a a cool stack of money in the bank. When I made the decision to walk away I had no money and I'm still trying to clear up debt. I never asked him for anything; didn't ask him to help me with the debt we created together because I was doing it on my own anyway. Now it's just the price of being free.
Now get up!!!! dust off your knees. If you can't get up ...stay down there to pray. If you don't believe your prayers will be heard..use your prayers to clear your mind. You don't have to stay down and out. COME ON!!!!
I'll pray for you to get through this bad time. Keep posting...we're here to support you!
Thank you all again you have been wonderful.
Although divorce is very close to having a death in the family believe me it's not. In the end you having to live with this person and everything he's put you through. But at the end will be a new you. Don't let the new you lie before she is concieved.
Nurse, you have to breathe. Just breathe.
You are going to be okay. It's all going to be okay. You'll get through all of this. But not all at once. It's hard to stop your mind from spinning with horrible details.
All you have to do, is breathe. Get through this one current moment. Right here right now.
Right here, right now you are okay. And you are supported and valued.