I've been living in a very difficult situation, My wife of almost 9.5 years, suddenly started going out with new friends (last 6 mos)drinking and sometimes for weekends. In the last 2 months she has been taking one week here and there to stay at her friends home, when I ask where she stays she says that she does not need to tell me anything. She never calls back when I call her, she says that her friends would make fun of her, She never call her daughters when they call her, sometimes takes 2 or 3 days to return their calls (they are 6 and 8). I lost 40 pounds in the last 6 months and I feel terrible. I have jitters and shake all the time; this is even affecting me at work. I manage a large department and it is becoming very apparent that my mind is somewhere else. I am thinking on moving by the end of the month and take my kids with me on the days we agreed, I serve her divorce papers on 4/7/08. I think I should let her worry about where she is moving to. My house is for sale and it is short sale so I not paying rent anymore. I feel guilty but I dont see other course of action. She calls late at night and say she is going to be late, she shows up at 7:00AM and she tells me that she knows she is doing wrong, and so what! What are you going to do about it...? Almost like trying to provoke a reaction from me. I am going crazy. Am I doing the right thing?
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