My wife moved out again for the third time . It has been 3 weeks almost . We met at the park to talk . I was getting the storage key to get my drums out . So I asked why she moved into our old neighbors place (my old drinkin buddy) . She said just roomates . She knows I dont like him . And felt very uncomfortable . So when we parted I asked what about our marriage ? She said I am in hurry to get a divorce . I left it at that and left . So now she wants the bed to move it in to her new place . I said no because I wont have a bed and she left not me . I said when you left you should of took everything you owned . She just took her clothes . I feel that she is not done but wants to do what ever she wants . Not work on the marriage and wont go to counseling . She is very confusing . I am in no hurry for divorce ! What is that suppose to mean anyway ? Is she trying to eat her cake to? I moved and wont tell her where I am . I dont want her to come back and leave again and ruin my new place . Has anyone had a spouse that has done this to them . Do you think she is asking for more time to get her life together ? I am not chasing her and she is still angry about her bed situation . If she is going to stay married to me then I am not going to accept she stay with another man and his young son . She wouldnt put up with that . So if she stays then I will probably file . It is becoming ridiculous with her behavior . You either want the marriage or you dont . So does anyone have any thoughts? Or should I give her time because I still love her ? She is 35 and never acted this way before . She is trying to chase happiness . I am tired now and want some truthfull anwsers from her .
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