Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have been seperated from my wife for a little over 2 months now. I am so lonley physically (sexually) and emotionally since the seperation. My wife wants to see me stable but does not want anything to do with me beyond figuring out financial situations and making sure my son is affected as little as possible because of the seperation. Being Bi-polar I am hyper sexual to begin with so not being able to be with my wife is very difficult for me, porn is not the answer if fact it was part of the problem. I have been able to resist the temptation of porn so I am very happy about that. I have been taking care of myself with thoughts of my wife and I but I cry when I am masterbating and am getting little to no satifaction from it now. I do not want to cheat on my wife because that would end the marriage for sure (I still have hope of putting my marriage back together once I get stablizied). I am weakening and am afraid I will go out and submit to my lonliness. I am looking for any advice that may help me through these long lonely days and nights with using porn or another woman. My wife is not willing to be with me at this time and I don't know if she will ever want to be with me again. Thanks in advance for any advice.
Ron
Ron
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I guess the saying "you never miss your water 'til your well runs dry". I also want to applaud you for not finding comfort with someone else. I think it would mean the world to your marriage. I want to encourage you to hang in there and keep the faith that your marriage can work, without the porn. ((Hugs))