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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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My daughter comes home from her dad's and tells me stuff that he does to her. For example my fathter in law passed away on Thanksgiving todayy they were having his memorial. My daughter says she really wanted to go so I call the stbx and tell him I think he is pretty sorry of him not to let her go. I had to meet him 45 mins away to get my daughter so when we were going home we seen him on the way to his whore's house so my daughter says well that is why he didn't want me to go because of her. So I think I should call and tell him how she feels so I call and cuss him and tell him how sorry he is for not letting her go. He says that its not the day for me to be saying all that stuff. I told him he has proved it to me that he cares more about the whore than he does his daughter because today is a day I would want everyone I cared about around me and he chose to be around his whore and not his daughter. So he kept repling back and so did I and of course I would cuss him everytime. So I feel like I am crazy and he is going to use my voicemails in court because I was so mad. Please help
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I can only imagine how difficult this must be and I would never downplay that. You have every right to be furious, but it is probably not helping much with him.
I am so sorry you have to put up with this situation. It stinks!
Do protect yourself from frustration. You don't need that. NO more contact like that--text or email. That you can take to court! It won't be here say. It will be civil because it's being recorded. Smart move. Doing this myself and feeling more sane.
i know it is very hard, but he is only doing this to try to get you upset and do something you normally wouldnt do.
be strong, and dont let him see you hurt. that will bug him more than the chew out.
But, it dose not do any good...at least for me it has not. I just get high blood presure and feel crazy at the end. I have been really trying to stop those type of conversaions, slowly but slowly. It's hard.
Just hang up if you feel yourself start to want to scream at him.