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i am getting so frustrated...help

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it's been yrs. since i haven't felt motivation to do anything for my husband, i don't want to cook for him, don't want to do laundry for him, and of course SEX is a torture for me, last night i took an ambien, to sleep, he knows i get somewhat confused and groggy and i have short term memory the next day. well i feel bad, because i woke up in my underwear this morning, and i don't remember what happened at all, no memory what so ever but i know he had sex with me, because there was a condom in the trash can. i feel like i was abused again, but in a different way.
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Wow, that's rough smiles. I've read that Ambien can do some weird stuff to you. Can you get a different sleep med? I have insomnia so bad I zoom right past ambien, but in a pinch Tylenol PM will put me out (but not THAT out.) It could be you were conscious then but are having a blackout now.

Sounds like the reconciliation is not working out. Have you guys been to counseling together?
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*hugs*.... tough situation. only you can decide what to do. I'm sorry.
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have you tried other medication? your sound like you are depressed. Have you seen a doctor?
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i hope that things get better for you.
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Yes, you should try a different medication. Stay strong!
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