about what's happening to my marriage. The interesting thing I noticed last night while sitting in my workshop, is that I can see how and more importantly, WHY I rushed into my 2nd marriage and why it most likely has gotten to the point where it is now. The sad thing is, that while hindsight is 20/20 and I hope not to make the same mistakes in the future, I can better see what my husband is doing right now with rushing into a new relationship with someone else. Sadly the statistics are not in his favor for it working out. He's spent no time REALLY working on himself or even grieving over our marriage. He's been 1/2 a person and looking for someone to make him whole. When it didn't work with me, he moved on to someone else. It's sad, of course, but helps me in feeling not so rejected and seeing that a lot of this is about his/our issues, codependency on each other, etc.
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