I don't date very often and when I finally decide to open my heart to someone, that someone tears my heart apart..Don't know anymore why men do this. They want a good woman in their life and when they finally find one, they don't know what to do with her..I honestly don't get it anymore! I am feeling horrible and hurt! My exhusband hurt me so bad and now my exboyfriend? I felt after I divorce I would give this new man in my life a chance because he said he wanted a serious relationship and was looking for someone like me..well now he plays the friekin victim just like my exhusband did and is making me feel like it's not him, it's me thing..I am getting to a point where I will shut the door on men because I get hurt all the time. I am feeling horrible! why do men like to play games?? Not saying all men are the same..but it's just how I feel right now!
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