Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband and I are definitely going to seperate, thats inevitable. We decided it was best though to wait until after Christmas, for the kids sake. The problem is he's acting like he's already gone. He's lazy as hell, all he does is watch tv or play video games. He never helps with household chores or the kids. (Not that he did much anyways) Should I just do it all, being that I'm going to have to when he does leave? Or should I say something? I don't see it matters really what I say.... we're kind of doing our own things anyways. But we're supposed to be parents together. He's aggravating the SH*# out of me!
keepthehope
He may be unmotivated now but when the reality of the sepreation and divorce sets in he will be an emotional wreck as will you. It is important to focus on the kids since this will have an impact on them as well. Feelings are hurt and raw and everything is personal. As hard as it is, trust me I know, stay focused, do your crying because there will be plenty of it but strive to be the better person if he can't.
deleted_user
You need to say something, it's not fair to you. You didn't say how old the children are, because if they are old enough to understand, sit them down and tell them what is going on and end it now. Separation and divorce is hard on children no matter how old they are but you need to Ask yourself, Can I live like this for another month?
Seashells1
Are you still taking care of him? You know, laundry, cooking, etc. Perhaps preparing him for the future by not taking care of him will help him prepare for the future.
deleted_user
Just endure his bullshit-my X laid in bed for a year with the computer, online gambling, and ESPN-Once he is gone you don't have to look at his lazy ass anymore and you will be soooo releived.
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