Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have been with my husband for 12 years and have 2 children with him. He has been VERY distant for the past month and has completly shut me out. I did my research because he has cheated on me 4 times that I KNOW of. I found that he has been texting with some 20 something old girl. He said she is just a cool chick, but then why be secret. I find out from his BF that she said that she won't be with him if he is still with his wife. Well on Saturady he told me he wants to split and I am supposed to tell him how much $ I want for child support. I asked him if this was a seperation or a trial sepreration. He said he is not sure. So here I am holdiong on again, but in my heart it is almost like he is saying that to me in case it does not work out with the newer model! Now he hasn't left yet and he climbs into my bed everynight. I am just waiting for him to tell me he is so wrong and let's work it out. I quess that is where the mental and emotional abuse for years comes in. I am still holding out for hope. I want to be ticked off and angry, but can't find it in my heart to be. HELP ME figure out how to get angry!!!!!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I'm a fellow "Been cheated on 4 times".
You haven't left him, which tells him that he can pretty much do anything and you won't leave. You've already set a very dangerous precident for yourself.
He's not going to change.
And this separation BS? Don't fall for it.
Call his bluff, tell him to make it a full-out divorce.
He does not respect you, as a human being, as a wife, as a spouse.
If he did, he never would have done this to you.
First time he cheated was one time too many...
For Now, tell him to get his Butt out to the Couch. If he wants OUT-START with Getting OUT of Your Bed.
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