I just need support. I am hurting so bad. My stbx just came and got the girls and is taking them to the other womans for dinner and to have my youngest stay overnight. He told me he knows I don't agree with this, but it is his time with the girls and he can do what he likes. He said his counselor said it would not be emotionally harmful for the girls. How can it not be harmful to have their father with another woman when he is still married to their mom?? He said well I don't feel married anymore and I am proud to be with her. So then morals and honor are just made up words, that don't have value unless you want them to??? I told him it is embarassing for me and our children to have people ask why he is with another woman when we are not divorced yet. He said he doens't care, that his patients and employees think he is honorable. There is a right way to do things, you divorce and then start a new relationship. Everything gets so mixed up when I talk with him. I feel like I am the one that is wrong. Is there not right and wrong in life anymore??
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