My step daughter just sent me the mean and nastiest emails that I have ever had. She said that I was a horrible person and that she hated me to coming between her dad and his new gf. Long and short...my husband came to me yesterday and we ended up having sex, meanwhile he has been living with another woman. He came back later with his car packed. He had moved out of the OW's house, he said he could not make love to me and live with her, when he still loved me so much. The OW called my stepdaughter to let her know that he had moved out. He hasn't moved back in yet, because we are trying to see where everything is going to go...just take things slow, he is still confused about alot of stuff. I'm ok with that. Well..apparently my stepdaughter really liked this OW even though this person came between my husband and me. She said that the OW is a better person then I will ever be. Shes mad because she lost her party place (OW's house). She let her drink and stepdaughter is only 18. My husband was great...he told off his daughter and he is on his way to tell the OW that she better never do anything like this again and he wants nothing more to do with her. But I am still so hurt, I have been with my stepdaughter for 10 years...treated her better then my own kids when she would come to stay at the house. Sit up til 2am with her when she needed to talk about her mom or dad. Its is amazing to me that an 18 can be so hurtful over things she knows nothing about. Im sorry for rambling....just needed to get it off my chest. Thank you as always my DS friends for listening. :-)
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