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hummm randon thoughts....

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I wounder, do we really miss our ex or just feel lonly that theres no one there to love or feel or touch? I know stupied question,......
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I'm lonely!
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Not a stupid question. I do not miss my ex. I think I am mourning for the guy I met 12 years ago but I want nothing to do with the guy he is now. I don't miss that guy. I miss having someone to love but I'm realizing that what I had wasn't real for a very long time so I'm pretty confused right now.
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Not a whole lot of difference. Made me realize I was alone for a long time anyway. Less laundry and cleaning to do for me. It's really easier. Wish she would have left my cookware, she has not cooked in years.
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I miss the person I knew six years ago the man I divorced is not the same as the guy I married. I am just taking things as they come
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I miss my old life with him. We were best friends and lovers. Surf buddies, bussiness buddies, children rasing buddies, life building buddies. I miss my old life with him.
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i think i'm just jealous of stbx because i know what he is capable of giving to a woman, and i'm not getting it! Lonely? not really because i truly have peace when he is not here...oh what a feeling! i do miss him most a night, even just to hold and be held.
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I truly, honestly, miss my husband.
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I miss a person who never really existed, just a persona put forth and it seems surreal to miss something that was not genuine.
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I've been thinking about this, trying to figure out if I really missed him or if I was just lonely or afraid of not having someone in my life. A couple of days ago, I'd say I missed him. Now, I'm not so sure. I'm still sorting through those feelings.
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Not stupid at all.

I don't think it's HIM that I miss, maybe I miss who I thought he was. I miss feeling like I mattered to someone.

I actually like living alone, I enjoy solitude. But I would like to have someone in my life again, I'd like to feel like I'm special to someone.
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i am truley not sure some times i do miss her but when she come to get kids i see what she has become and how cold she is even to her own kids and i ask myself do u miss her or are u lonely
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I actually do like living on my own. I like doing what I want whenever I feel like it. I like not having to pick up after or clean up for someone else or run someone else's errands. I wish I could have the best of both worlds!
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I don't miss my stbx.

I feel lonely and miss companionship sometimes. But I don't miss him.
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I don't miss my EX... but I do miss being in a relationship, having someone THERE for me. If that makes sense.
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I miss both. I miss being with someone in general....and then I also miss being with the guy I'd fallen in love with. I mean, he's just my ex-bf he's not my ex-husband or anything, but I miss him considerably....I'm still head over heels for him. But he's not in the same place I am. So whatever. I still miss being with someone overall though.
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