Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I was dressing my son for bed when he told me "Daddy open the door and the alarm went off and all the boys went running." I asked did he go inside my son responded "Yes." I have sole occupancy of our home. Now my husband tries to continue enter the house when I'm not home. I called my lawyer and told her he can dis arm the alarm because his name is on the alarm contract and it is still in his name. If he can prove He is who he is he can turn off the alarm even if the alarm codes and paswords have been changed. Evidently that is what he has done. I still don't know what he wanted. But I don't feel safe. I'm a stay at home mom and so I depend on his money at this time. I called my lawyer and she said use his money to change the locks. (He tried to lead me to believe he give me all the keys in the past). Why must he continue to control me. He has a new whore why must he have his hands in my life too. He also keeps saying he wants to mow my lawn for me and paint my house (he couldn't get that done the whole 2.5 years he lived in this house what makes me think he'll get it done when he doesn't live in my house.) I think he just wants to be in my house to keep tabs on me. I've got nothing to hide. I'm not a prostitute, I don't do drugs, I have no boyfirend. He can't even hardly prove I'm an unfit mother. So what's all the control crap???
Thoughts anybody?
Thoughts anybody?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
OMG.....we are married to the same man!
well I am divorced now.. but HE would walk in to the house after we got divorced... come over to walk the dog.. and just unlock the front door and walk in... told him to stop.
He then after 2 months of this bullshit, knock once quietly and then open the door... this after I thought he gave me all the keys!.
It was his way of controlling the situation.. showing me who was boss!.. and suddenly the man who never cleaned, raked, power-washed, painted... did nothing to the house was pruning and ruining all our trees.. just killed out fruit trees...tore down the garden shed cos he was going to build a new one.. which he has not done... emptied the woodshed and gave away all our dry wood for the fireplaces.
My girls and me do not feel safe now.. we bollt, lock and chain the doors now. He knows how to jimmy the windows which scares me.
YOU KNOW HOW I STOPPED HIM?...
did what my Dad told me to do... next time I come home.. find my front door unlocked.. or that he has come in... call the Police and tell them someone broke in...and you are scared.
Told the EX that I would call the Police.
and.. I recently told him to stay off my property.. do not just come over and take things from the yard or the deck... if he does.. I will call the cops.
I will do it too.
My x did the same thing (I changed the locks!!). This summer, he kept trying to mow the lawn, promised to make improvements on the home, etc. Now he wants me to stay in the home (he got it in the divorce) and just pay him rent. I think that is so he can feel as though he still has power over me!
Just get the locks changed!!!
CHANGED THE LOCKS