Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
It's been over a month now and I still am stuck in the same place. I am struggling with how to move forward and begin. I have our 3 boys. He has his "new life". Every time we speak about the boys, he continues to remind me. I still cry most days, feel sad & confused. I want to be confident again and strong but keep coming right back here. Any advise?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
It's only been a month. You have to give yourself time and learn how to take care of you. Think about what you want to do. I know it's hard b/c everything I did was a "we" and now it's just me. You have to look for strength in yourself. It is there belive me and just take one day at a time or one hour at a time and realize that life is NOT over b/c of this and this will NOT DEFINE WHO YOU ARE!
This was the roughest time for me. My kids are grown. Every time I hear of you young ladies trying to stay sane through the beginning of this heartbreak, I salute you. I know others have said it but it reuly is time. Be kind to yourself.
Every day is probably a huge challenge, it was for me...and I didn't have small children...just Dogs. My friend was making sure that they were being fed on time, she would message me to Feed Them.
Moving out from under this is difficult. You need to fill the Hole, that he left you with, with something constructive and only for YOU. Some Dream that you can manage.
I know that sounds difficult, but even with children there has to be Something that you Want and can make happen.