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How to get over someone that just dissapeared?

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Hi I am Guin and this is my story. I was with Gregory for 6 months. We went through so much together. We lost a child, lost our jobs, he lostg his car and we were both sick during the six months. Also I thought he was cheating on my with my niece. Because they were all over eachother and he was barely having anything to do with me. He hated his family and never even talked to them the first 4 or 5 months and then he started going over there more often and then at the end he said he was going to his mom's for 2 days and he only took a small bag of clothes and he just never came back. I waited 2 weeks for him and then I finally moved back home. I don't know how to deal with this because I have never been through anything like this before. At first I was hurt and then I got mad and then I went numb. How do you get over someone that just dissapeared?
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Also he never called or came by or anything.
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How odd. I guess you don't know where his parents live? You need to have closure of some kind without including him. I would write him a letter even though you don't know where to mail it. i.e. write your goodbye, seal the envelope and say goodbye.

I think it is good because he probably was cheating and is obviously unstable. You can find a better guy than that now.
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Thank you angel. That is a really good idea. I think I will do that.
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