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How to get my wife back and show her I am the one?

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I was mentally abusive to her and never cared to much about her feelings just mine? I am selfish but I love her a lot and not that we are separated just always have. I never show affection towards her. We have three children together. I drink, not all the time but I did, and I was an angry and flit drunk. I was a black-out drinker. I am currently going to church and getting help from AA. I put her though a lot and she can not ever forgive me. Do you think she will in due time or is there to much hurt. I have 2 DWI's pending. My life went for great to worst will it ever get better?
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Love u Alex
I can only speak for me, but I took it for a long time, and finally asked for a divorce. Even if he changed and wanted me back, I wouldn't go. I wouldn't have any faith that he had truly changed after all that time. There would be constant trust issues that would make us both miserable and we'd just end up resenting each other.
It's great that you are going to church and attending AA. I applaud your effort and hope that it continues to help and that you can build a really great life for yourself. But she is going to have to heal herself, and she can't focus on healing herself if she's tied up in your healing.
Will she ever forgive and come back, I don't know. But maybe, as you both heal you can build a friendship around your involvement with your children. And from that friendship rebuild trust. But you have to let it happen over time, if it happens at all. Don't rush, don't push, just try to heal yourself and become the best person you can be. God will do what's right for you. Whatever He brings into your life, whether it's a challenge or a triumph is for a reason. Learn, grow and move forward from that.