
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
How to forget about somebody who you still love?

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Here is my story. I met a man in his late 20s online. This was more than a year ago. We met and we started a relationship. I was really beautiful at first, and then all of a sudden he started to get distant. He didn't call as he used to, and we didn't go out as often as we used to. He said that the problem was because he has a child in his country and he misses him so much and he was going back to his country, he has no papers, thats why he can't go and come back. He finally broke up with me by email because he said he didn't have the courage to do it in person and his reado for breaking up was that he was going back to his country. After almost a month I contacted him asking if we could be friends and he agreed, we saw each other a couple of times, I went to his home and we made out and I asked him if we were going to get back together and he said yes, but after that he disappeared again. Now he has come back, we are in touch again, haven't seen him yet, he hasn't even said he is sorry, and hasn't said about getting back together, but he is kind of flirty with me. I haven't ask him anything about his reasons why he disappeared before because I'm kind of waiting if he tell me to see each other, then I could confront him face to face. I feel I stiil love him, but I also know that his attitude hurts me, he started sendind me txt messages like every day, then we chat online like every day, and now I feel like he is getting distant again, because now he doesn't contacts me so often, and when he doesn't I feel very sad and like crying. So what I need here is like support, I do have friends and family but they haven't gone through what I've had. I know there's people out there with bigger problems than mine, but I feel really lonely now, and I need support from people with similar experiences. Thanks.

deleted_user
Writing is on the wall on this one girl. You deserve someone who can respect you and put you and your needs first. Sounds like you are being used. Don't mean to sound harsh on this but cut him loose.

deleted_user
I agree with mombasa, you need to cut your loses on this one, I know it is hard, but it is what is best for you!

deleted_user
It sounds like either he doesn't want to commit or he's married.

deleted_user
yea somethings up-be careful-we all deserve somebody that respects us-hugs to you

deleted_user
I agree with all the other posts, something isn't right here, cut your loses and move ahead with your life, too many mixed signals and a total lack of respect and empathy.
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