It seems like most people here are angry because their spouse treated them wrong. My situation is different in that i left my spouse because he was abusive to me and the kids, but he is the one who is angry with me. He has a lot of problems but in his mind I am the one who is wrong- I left and destroyed the family. He takes no responsibility for his part in it. He is so angry with me that he can barely be in my presence, he refuses totalk to me or acknowledge me unless he wants something from me. We have to deal with each other becuase of the kids, we share equal custody of them, and we cant even talk to each other. My question is, what is my responsibility in this? I cannot do anything about his anger, that is one of the games he used to play, to be so angry with me until I did what he wanted. We are supposed to buy my oldest a car for graduation, but he is a control freak and communication seems impossible at this point. Should I just move on and do what I want without consulting him? Has anyone else had a problem dealing with an angry spouse?
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