Ok,I still talk/hang out sometimes w/ my STBX. (We've known each other for 18 yrs.)He was the one that walked out on our marriage. anyways, how do i deal w/ him, acting like, and possibly behaving like he is "single" (no papers have been signed yet) and yet he still uses our apt. address to recieve mail, hasn't closed his bank acct, to take my name off, or hasn't taken my name off his cell ph. account either. (where he is currently living w/ a guy friend of ours, he (STBX) says it's just temporary, and the landlord doesn't know that he is staying there.)I told him 2 months ago,that how much it was going to be when it comes time to get a divorce. His reply- "well I don't have the $ for it yet." I want him to pay for the fees, 'cause HE was the one who decided to leave, (not even try counseling, etc). But I'm afraid that I'm going to be the one in the end who will end up taking the brunt of the $ to pay/file for a divorce. This is not cool.
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