My husband and I have been going through a divorce since last February and it's finally going to end in front of the Judge the end of this month. I am terrified at how he acts towards me when he is corrected, if he's wrong or when he wants his way. He's always turned the tables on me, even when we were married and while dating. The most recent bullying has been him telling me that I can't take our son on a Florida-Disney vacation next month. He says that he better get our son on the Friday we're supposed to leave (for his weekend visit) "or else". I have tried not to react and give him the satisfaction of knowing he pushed my buttons. For my own sanity how can I stop this from happening? I don't think that I should be afraid of him anymore since he's out of my life, right? Maybe I'm over reacting?
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