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My stbx has been bad mouthing me to everybody especially his family to
make me look bad, to make everybody believes that I married him only
for my immigration status. He even bad mouthed about my relationship
with my dad, saying I hated my dad and I turned that hate toward him.
That's all crap!! I don't hate my dad, we are not close but I don't
hate him. I am so mad and I feel so helpless. I know this will go
around his family and friends and eventually settled in as his version
of "truth". I don't even have a chance to speak for myself. How
should I take it? I really don't know how to take it. I feel like I
am about to explose!!!
make me look bad, to make everybody believes that I married him only
for my immigration status. He even bad mouthed about my relationship
with my dad, saying I hated my dad and I turned that hate toward him.
That's all crap!! I don't hate my dad, we are not close but I don't
hate him. I am so mad and I feel so helpless. I know this will go
around his family and friends and eventually settled in as his version
of "truth". I don't even have a chance to speak for myself. How
should I take it? I really don't know how to take it. I feel like I
am about to explose!!!

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What he's doing is running an offessive play. Don't react with a high defense. Just smile at his antics and know the truth.
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