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I wrote this in my journal the other day, but just wanted to get opinions from others as well as those that I talk to all the time. So here it goes.....
I came down with a nasty head cold and quite honestly would rather chop my head off than deal with the pounding and pressure. You get the picture, I'm miserable! So I went to the store the other day to get Thanksgiving fixings and got myself some cold medication at the same time. By the time I got home it was a couple hours later. As I'm unloading I realize they forgot to give me the bag w/ the cold meds in it (of course). I call and they are holding it at customer service. By this time my hubby is home, but his truck is blocking my car in the garage. I ask him to move it so I can run get my cold stuff. HE REFUSES!! Seriously would not move his truck and wouldn't tell me where the keys were so I could do it!!! How bad is that? He wouldn't get his a** off the couch for two minutes to help me out!! I was so mad!!!
I don't really know why I am surprised, he is a very self-centered person, but this takes the cake (almost, there was once that was waaaaay worse, if you want to know send me a message, I'll fill you in). Anyway what is everyone's take on this?????
I came down with a nasty head cold and quite honestly would rather chop my head off than deal with the pounding and pressure. You get the picture, I'm miserable! So I went to the store the other day to get Thanksgiving fixings and got myself some cold medication at the same time. By the time I got home it was a couple hours later. As I'm unloading I realize they forgot to give me the bag w/ the cold meds in it (of course). I call and they are holding it at customer service. By this time my hubby is home, but his truck is blocking my car in the garage. I ask him to move it so I can run get my cold stuff. HE REFUSES!! Seriously would not move his truck and wouldn't tell me where the keys were so I could do it!!! How bad is that? He wouldn't get his a** off the couch for two minutes to help me out!! I was so mad!!!
I don't really know why I am surprised, he is a very self-centered person, but this takes the cake (almost, there was once that was waaaaay worse, if you want to know send me a message, I'll fill you in). Anyway what is everyone's take on this?????
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He sounds like a very caring person!
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I thought you were going to say he wouldn't get the medicine. Wow. Is he hostile about something or just an arsehole?
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It is about controll not all abuse is physical. I have dealt with this for years. It never gets better. The fact that he wouldn't even give you the keys so you could move it says so much
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My stbx has a twin
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