Ok now that our divorce is final he wants to be friends. Which for the sack of my kids I am ok with that....but now he wants to talk to me all the time and he has been IM ing me and now this morning I have an email waiting from him asking if I want to spend xmas morning with him and the kids. Ok now he has barely said anything to me in the last 6mths during this process other than issues we have with the kids. Now I can't get him to shut up and leave me alone. I asked him why he feels the need to talk to me know and he couldn't before. He stated that he was scared on my lawyer. So now that it is final does that make me any different then I was for the last year. I just don't know how to tell him that I am his x wife not his biggest fan.
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