Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
She's still trying to find herself. An emotional wreck. I'm an emotional wreck waiting on her to make a decision. She constantly calls crying wanting to talk. If she's unsure if she wants to stay together or not do i keep myself accessable or keep my distance & make her ses things the way they will be without me & us (3yr old) as a family.
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Only you can decide what is best for you and how much you can handle... I wish you the best and I wish you peace... bless you and take care!
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Same boat. 'Cept my kids are 14 and 19. Been waiting 5 months. How much is it worth to you?
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Gee, this is a tough one. On one hand you want to say "kiss my as*, you made your bed now lie in it". Or be the compassionate understanding dildo who gets his heart broken even more. Funny, there is no right answer. Maybe find a balance in the middle. Remember her getting healthy emotionally is best for your kid(s). In my case, my first wife left with the idea of finding herself and it is 8 years later and I don't think she is any closer. Ultimately, you need to look after you and your child.
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i would detatch..she needs her time to find out what she wants, in the mean time you use the time to heal and be ready for whatever she decides..wouldnt by any means be a shoulder to cry on
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