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How many of U did the Full STD check?

deleted_user
deleted_user
Well my hubby is in to porn and I suspect is swinging. So I did the full check up. I got a call today every thing WAS NEGATIVE!!!!! Now I have to wait another 6 months to have AIDS retested. But so far so good. How many of you felt it was necessary to go get all the tests?
solongbye
solongbye
Yes I did, he was sleeping with multiple ho's..one of which admitted that although she was married she preferred the swinging lifestyle. How embarrassing to have to go through this after being faithful for over 21 years.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i am so very sad to say, yes...i had to. not while we were together, but after he left me for the new "ho"..who cheated on him, they broke up, back with me, back with her....

blah blah blah...so, needless to say, i have had EVERYTHING checked, re-checked, checked, re-checked.

did i say checked and re-checked already????
deleted_user
deleted_user
That would have been the emaculate infection.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I did - more than once.

He refused to get an HIV test so i took out a life insurance policy on him (HIV test mandatory)

They issued the policy - what a relief!
deleted_user
deleted_user
That really sucks. Not only did he ruin the relationship and maybe others as well but he subjected you to any number of STD.
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
yup.. Emmaculate Infection here too.. .. but then.. last week I found out he was with a hooker 15 years ago... so that makes me feel real bad.. cos I got pregnant like 16 months later....

no std.. but I want to kill him for putting me at risk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yup I've done a couple since she cheated on me throughout the relationship. Last one was done in late May. It's just added anxiety.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yup, got it done twice within a six-month period.

Ugg.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I went through that with my xh 15 years ago. Everything was negative. I found out he was messin around with a woman that was shooting anything into her body she could. Very scary at the time. I'm know right where you are.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I did. Twice... I am good to go so to speak but will never be with anyone without protecting myself and my health. Unless we both were into it long term and had proof of our test results... No joke.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not an issue in my relationship... but just to clarify... porn does not cause STDS. Sex with prostitutes will, but not porn.
deleted_user
deleted_user
When I suspected my spouse of "swinging both ways" I sure did.. came out clean..
deleted_user
deleted_user
Another clarification... swinging involves the couple. If you were not involved, then it was just cheating, or promiscuous behavior, not swinging. Unless, the term is used as mycherub used it (I believe) to refer to someone playing for both teams... then it would be appropriate, but it would not be referring to the swinging lifestyle.. more to the bi lifestyle.

Sorry, feeling like a trouble maker today.
solongbye
solongbye
My x doesn't think he needs to use protection, cause none of the hos are cheating on him.What a joke! The one that is a prison crack whore would sleep with anything..well so would he. I can only imagine what he will come up with.
deleted_user
deleted_user
"cause none of the hos are cheating on him"

OMG solong! what a piece of work he is!
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